Here are some reasons why male’s may cheat on their partners. If you think your husband, partner or boyfriend may be cheating on you and you require proof, then call the Dukeries ASI group and request the matrimonial surveillance service!
  • Their current relationship no longer gives them the satisfaction they crave for, but they cannot bring themselves to end the relationship, or they have no desire to end the relationship
  • Their partner no longer gives them the sexual satisfaction they desire, or sex has become boring or a “chore”
  • They like a number of sex partners; this can be that they cannot do without involving a number of persons or as an ego boost
  • The initial excitement of a “secret” affair provides a “buzz”
  • Domestically, life has become a “bore” where they do not feel that their partner desires or needs them.
  • They are not ready to have long-term commitments
  • They believe that to end a relationship would be costly and they are prepared to “dip their toes in the water” elsewhere
  • Men are very single-minded and rarely think about the consequences of their actions
  • Quite simply, they think that they can get away with cheating
  • Some men go into a relationship with little maturity and realise their error as they grow older
  • They enter into relationships which they do not take seriously.
  • They have the desire to remember what it was like to be free and wanted
  • A lack of or poor communication, no apparent love, friendship or support, from their partner can lead a man to cheat.
  • Other people are something new, different and more exciting
  • With someone new, you have “no baggage”
  • They just want something new, with “no strings attached”
  • They do not like the person that their partner has become – she is not the person that you initially fell in love with
  • His partner constantly “nags” at him
  • He is not understood by his partner
  • Biological behaviour to be with as many women as possible (“it’s a man thing” – “it’s in the genes”)
  • The man has become more powerful and successful; it is a well-known fact that these contribute greatly to infidelity
  • A form of revenge – his own partner has betrayed him by her cheating with another
  • He has a fear of getting too close to his partner
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